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Good morning. This is a devotional for single parents from Parenting Solo, but the message also applies to single adults without children who may one day marry a single parent and be a step-parent.

Note to readers: I’m back, refreshed and ready to go. Sorry about the delay of my return. I had to reproduce my e-mail list, so if you’ve asked to be removed and are back on, just send me another note. Thanks for being patient. Doug

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The end of the school year was a busy time in my life. Golf season ended a month ago after a short postseason run, one stroke short of advancing to the next level. The past few weeks have been stocked with awards banquets, finals preparation, grading and graduation. My son has taken finals and is back from Arizona State for the summer. My step-son has graduated from 8th grade and will be at Berean with me next year. Now I can breathe. For a while, anyway.

Fatigue had set in. After eight months of school, I am off for 2 ½ months. We may sell our house and buy another, taking advantage of the market and potential low interest rates. We are vacationing in Montana and Colorado. Somewhere in there, I need time for my family. During the summer, I must prepare for a new realm of teaching: boys physical education. Ugh. The school let me know they wanted to move me after not enough kids signed up for Writing and British Literature, the courses I taught this year.

All the while, my heart aches. My golf team should have played in the North Coast Section tournament in May. We stumbled and missed by a single stroke of advancing. Still, it was a great season, going places the school had never gone before. Each player knew they could have made up one stroke through their round somewhere. I told them to hold their heads high, that they must learn from their loss and grow through the process. Just don’t blame others; accept responsibility for yourself. Now I am formulating a plan for each of them to set new goals and get better as a team next year.

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